Once a Virago, Always a Goddess
Thanksgiving Day was last Thursday. Years ago my husband was fed up by my shrewish, OCD-ing. I wanted the house neat, the food prepared, the rooms festive, the children bathed and well behaved, the husband smiling…But Mitch was hardly amused much less in a smiling mood. He calmy but firmly stopped me in my tracks and effectively ceased my frenzy.
He sat me down and said, ‘Today is Thanksgiving, a day of appreciating all our blessings. Stop terrorizing the kids and me!’
My immediate reaction was a fierce denial. How dare he?! Yet he did dare and I was forced to face how ugly and thug-gish I had become. It took some doing but I am light years removed from such a virago. At least I think so. There are no more complaints coming from my family. My pooch Balou still gives me a wide berth. He needs more discipline. But that’s another story.
Enclosed are recipes that my family has enjoyed through the years.
I like Nigella Lawson, the Domestic Goddess. I like to think I’m the Lopez’ House version. I’m an equal opportunity Thanksgiving cook, er, goddess. We always have THE BIRD, the fish, the beef, and the pork/ham.
The Mungo is prepared after Gobble Gobble Day. I served this recipe for Philippine Vice President Binay at the Ambassador’s residence last spring. Then Ambassador Willy Gaa and his wife Linda have become our good friends. Even the White House Executive Chef, Ms Cristeta Comerford liked it. Ok, enough name dropping…..
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Asian Salmon
Ingredients:
- 1 large salmon, preferrably without skin
- 1 large bag of baby spinach
- 2 T chopped scallions (may use 1T of chopped onions)
- 3 cloves of garlic, minced
- 2-3 T oyster sauce
- 1 t soy sauce
- 2 T peanut oil (or canola oil will do just as well)
- 1 32 oz box of chicken broth
Directions:
- bake salmon in a pre-heated oven (350 deg) for no more than 15 minutes
- the rule of thumb is 12 minutes per inch of thickness
- after 12 minutes, check for doneness. if it flakes easily and is not raw anymore, take it out of the oven already
- while the fish is baking do the ff:
- boil the chicken broth in a large pot
- parboil the spinach leaves then with a slotted spoon place on a large elongated platter
- in a separate bowl mix the next 4 ingredients -scallions, garlic, oyster, and soy sauce; set aside
- place the cooked salmon on the bed of parboiled spinach leaves, set aside
- heat the peanut oil in a small pot
- place the bowl of oyster sauce mixture in the sink (for safety) then pour hot peanut oil into the mixture, mix well
- pour the oil/oyster sauce mixture over the salmon and spinach leaves
- serve with white/brown rice and your favorite salad
- 1/4 lb uncooked ham hocks
- 1 can stewed tomatoes (I use one with celery and pepper)
- 1 cup of mungo beans
- 1 bag of spinach
- shrimps (optional)
- 2 cloves of garlic, diced
- onions, cut lengthwise (like we were taught for use in sauteing)
- oil
- chicken broth and water
- Soak the mungo in water for about 2 hours. Set aside.
- Simmer the hocks and stewed tomatoes in enough chicken broth/water to cover until the ham is cooked. Maybe about 30 minutes
- Pour the soaking mungo beans into the ham hocks and cook until the beans ‘pop’ and become soft. Be careful to monitor closely because the beans will soak up a lot of liquid
- In a separate pan, saute the garlic and onions in oil. Pour that into the pot of hocks and mungo. Simmer for about 10 minutes.
- Add the spinach and shrimps before serving.
- Serve with cooked white rice.